Nowadays what comes in our mind when we heard the word “Marriage”.
Bandhan means A Bond which sometimes we choose to be in or sometimes society wants us to be in.
Bond with Love and Bond with arrangement.
These are just two perspectives which we make ourselves to believe in.
As per my experience, I had gone through both phases.
Sometimes we choose to get married because of FEAR.
Fear of loneliness, fear of society, fear of parents.
Those who are immensely in love wouldn’t agree with above statement and say they choose to get married because they love each other and want to spend whole life together.
Hmmm, quite believable, but lacking in substance.
The moment we try to possess it, it starts deteriorating. We are taking away freedom in which it grows.
Commitment for lifetime is not that easy and love fades away gradually because the foundation was not unadulterated. That is cultivated love.
“The best thing you can do to your love is to never marry them”
Because, only that way love will remain in your heart for them, unattainable, unadulterated,and that can be transformed to someone who you marry with.
“Love can’t be possessed, it can be transformed”
If ever you found yourself filled with emptiness, you can fill your heart with love because you have kept source of love intact and protected and unattainable and get it transformed whenever you want.
So think about it, keep source of love intact.